Day 16 of the A-Z Blog Challenge
Following hot on the heels of O is for Organise and matching it hand in hand is P is for Planning Ahead for Presents
The lists and immediate to do items are one thing, but it can also be worth looking further into the future when making plans for saving money.
In my phone i use the notes app to keep a list of people that i need to buy birthday/xmas presents for as well as any other celebratory events that may cost me money over the next twelve months or so. When i am out shopping, i keep an eye out for bargains/sale items that are suitable for those events and pick them up as and when i see them.
Now, i have always done this – remember the skint single mum thing back when the boys were growing up? But the problem i always had was that i would then squirrel them away somewhere and forget their existence until i was doing some random tidying up and would come across them again…usually a couple of days after the event they were originally purchased for.
So now, i make sure that i make a note next to each name, what the present is and how much it cost. This latter may not seem so important at first glance, but i generally have a set amount of money in mind that i allocate to each person. If i can save money on a present, it doesn’t necessarily mean that they only get that one, after all, they don’t know how much i paid for it, but quite often, i will make other purchases that brings the presents up to the value of that figure. Doesn’t mean that you have to do that too, remember, they don’t know how much you paid for it, whether full price or reduced, and does it really matter what the cost is if it is something that they want or need?
Not in my book, it really is the thought that counts. The thought that somebody has spent the time to try and find something you like and appreciate rather than a ‘that’ll do’ present that was purchased while standing at the check out, half an hour before closing time on Xmas Eve.
I once received 7 pairs of leggings for my Christmas present from my (now ex) husband. He said that i always wore leggings so what was the problem?
I had given birth to my third son one month before. I was sick of poxy leggings. I’d vowed never to wear the darn things ever, ever, ever again. I was already back wearing my size 10 jeans. i wanted something a bit more flattering than leggings.
It is my birthday one week after Christmas.
He bought me another pair of leggings. I’m not kidding you – he really did!
I felt like strangling him with them.
He admitted that he’d bought them with the other pairs on Christmas Eve and thought he’d save them for my birthday present.
Buy presents throughout the year so you spread the cost, but make sure they are suitable for the recipient.
…..Unless you want to get garrotted by a stray pair of leggings…
.Have a happy day.